Why Don’t People Know How To Mind Their Business?

I did not plan on posting a blog today but something happened today that got me irritated. Now before you continue reading, please know that I don’t judge any woman based on her sex skills, all I did was answer someone’s question by giving my opinion regarding sex.

Overall I am a shy person minding my business and never try to fit in but I do try to interact with people on Twitter and WordPress even though I am not the most popular on neither of these social media apps. When I interact with people, I usually interact with people I can relate to. If I see something on Twitter or on WordPress that I disagree with, I normally mind my business 9/10 times. The one time I do disagree, I am very respectful and polite when I come in people’s mentions on Twitter and the comment section on wordpress.

I was on Twitter today and I saw someone tweeted an interesting question. The question was

” Fellas what makes a woman’s box/sex trash??” (In this statement box means vagina)

This was interesting question and I replied to this tweet. My response was

If she is complaining and set too many rules example
1) Don’t slap my ass
2) Don’t pull my hair
3)Don’t look at me
4)Your going to rough(this is 50/50 because I understand this one a little lol)
Overall when it’s like when the box come with a code book or instructional manual and if it’s really loose like if u can fit three fingers or four inside.”

Now some girl that I don’t even know or seen before comes in the mentions and says
So you know nothing about the female body lmao….got it

Now first of all based on my response, how does my response imply that I know nothing about the female body lol and even if this girl feels I know nothing about the female body, why can’t she mind her business and not worry about how I respond?

Another story

Now on this example I am about explain, I will admit I should of mind my business and I was partially but the response that I received was disrespectful.

Now a little over a year ago on Twitter, this guy tweeted
I love black women, black women are beautiful“.
Now I didn’t know this guy so I shouldn’t of went into his mentions but I did anyway and I tweeted in his mentions
” Black women are goregous but I think all women of all races are beautiful
Now looking back on it now, I should of mind my business and all. So I can why the average person would get annoyed but this guy responded back to me and got disrespectful.
He tweeted in my mentions
“I said what I said, hop off my dick”
That comment pissed me off because even though I should of minded my business, I was respectful

Overall I do like Twitter. Twitter can be ignorant and reckless which is fine to me because some of my tweets are reckless as well. What I don’t understand is

1) Why don’t people mind their own business when they don’t agree with somebody’s opinion?

This is the reason why I stay to myself. What I learned in life is, when you are not popular, don’t have money, have no power, overweight or maybe not the most attractive towards the average person, people will judge you like your worthless or pay you no mind. Like a unpopular person can have an opinion on something that’s not logical, and people are quick to belittle that person. Let another person that’s more popular and attractive have the same unlogical opinion on the same exact situation as the unpopular person, than those same people that belittled the unpopular person will praise the popular person. Quiet people or people that are not popular are always told to speak up more and to open up, but when quite/unpopular people actually do speak what’s on their mind, doesn’t it feel like they get shut down or criticized? Also don’t you feel like people on social media and in real life judge you based on how popular you are? Have you ever had any arguments with people on social media? Why do people like arguing on social media?

If you have anything to add, feel free to comment

Another Friday Question

As usual I have some questions that any blogger is more than welcomed to answer in the comment section.

 

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The subject of this questions deal with submission

 

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.

  1. Now whats an example of a man leading the household?
  2. What’s an example of a wife submitting to her husband?

 

The subject of this questions deal with being dickmatized

Based on urban dictionary, dickmatized is “When the dick is so good you start too catch feelings for the guy. When really your just catching feelings for the dick. When the dick makes you say/do crazy things”

A few days ago I was on twitter and I read a thread about being dickmatized and I read some insane stories so my question is

  1. If you are dealing with a toxic man but the sex is marvelous, do you believe great sex will make it hard for you to walk out the relationship?
  2. If you are dealing with a healthy, good looking, goal oriented gentleman but the sex is very bad, will that have you thinking about exiting the relationship if the sex will never improve?
  3. Lets say if you are with a guy that’s the whole package, good looks, perfect height, a gentleman, your parents love him and he is a man of God and ya plan to live happily ever after, do you think being dickmatized by this type of guy is healthy?

 

Please comment below your answers and also after you watch this video, comment below if you agree with what this man was saying!

 

 

Who Has A right To Choose?

This isn’t a poem but a question that I want you to answer in the comment section?

When a woman gets pregnant, is it the woman’s choice as far as keeping the baby or wanting the abortion?

Now most say that a man shouldn’t tell a woman what to do with her body but if the woman wants an abortion but the man wants to keep the baby and the man and woman can’t agree with each other, who do you believe has the right to make the final decision, should the final decision be made from the man because he actually wants own up to his mistakes for being irresponsible and take care of his responsibility or does the woman has the final say so because it’s her body and no one can tell her what to do with her body?

Comment below

What Do You Believe Is The Most Common Mistake Made On The 1st Date?

This post is not a poem. Today I decided to post something that I read on social media that have caught my attention.
I will keep this short and simple

I read on social media about how this woman went on a date with this guy. This guy spent 200 dollars on the 1st date and he assumed that he was going to have sex with this women when he walked her to the door. She felt the vibe that he wanted to have sex. So she told him to go to the store and buy condoms and she also told him that she was going to hop in the shower real quick and wait for him and let him in when he comes back from 7-11.. As soon as he left to go to 7-11 to buy condoms, she close the door and locked it and blocked his number and never spoke to him again.

1) After reading this, what is your opinion on this situation?

2) What is your opinion about this man based on reading this? Did he make any mistakes? Do you think he is naive?

3) What do you believe are common mistakes that people make on 1st dates?

4) How much money is appropiate to spend on a first date?

5) Is it appropriate to have sex on the 1st date?

6) What is your opinion about this woman based on reading this? Do you agree with what she did? Do you think she is ungrateful?

7) If your child was 18 and they told you that they had sex on the 1st date, how would you respond?

8) Why do men assume sex is guaranteed if they spent alot money on a date?

9) How common do you think sex on the first date happens?

10) Do you think it’s better to have sex on the first date or to wait until you are married to have sex? If you had to choose, what would you pick?

11) This question is for women, if your in a relationship, do you expect your boyfriend to pay to get your hair and nails done?

Pick one question that your caught your attention the most and comment below and I will respond to your comment regarding my opinion.

The Shadow Of Winter

Just want to let you know I just accomplished another goal before the end of the year by uploading this blog and  I still have 19 more blogs to upload this month before the year is over. On Friday I will upload part 2 to my 25th birthday story, please read part 1 I Will Never Forget My 25th Birthday (Part 1). On Saturday I will upload  a poem “Suicidal Thoughts”, On Sunday I will upload a poem “Magic Spell”. On Monday December 11, I will upload a poem “The Unsolved Mystery”. On Tuesday December 12, I will upload two  interesting  questions that will have you thinking . On Wednesday December 13,  I will upload, “Get Lost in my Poems part 2” please read part 1 Get Lost In My Poems     . On December 15, I will upload,  “Poetry is the Power of Life”.  On December 16th, I will upload another interesting question about life for you  to think about. On December 17th, I will write a poem about the number ‘7’. On December 18th, I will upload a blog explaining what is silent unity. On December 19th, I will upload a poem in on a topic in which you will pick a topic for me and all you have to do is comment below in this blog on which topic you would like me to talk about and this is first come first serves.  On December 20th, I will write a blog on how to build your traffic on word press/blogging and share some tips that helped me.  On December 21st, I upload  an erotic poem. On December 23, I will upload another deep personal question.  On December 24, I will upload a poem “Chase the money not the p*ussy”. On December 26, I will upload a poem with a multiple choice question at the end. On December 27, I will a personal  embarrassing experience of mines. On December 29th,  I will upload  a poem “Don’t believe when she says I’m done with him”. On December 31st, well this will be a special blog that’s all I will say.  I plan to upload as much as I can. October and November I had a lot of success with blogging and  I plan to improve every month. Not only that, I will work twice as a hard to give feedback on my followers and give generous feedback on your blogs.  I will be working hard in December and January because in the spring I won’t be blogging as much because it will  be my last semester of school and I have to take a very hard class and I have to stay focus. By the summer of 2018, god willing if I’m still blogging I will write a personal experience of my year of 2017. I have a lot of work to do but if you want to be successful at something if you have to work hard.  I encourage for every blogger reading, this challenge yourself and look at all your previous blogs. Pick your most successful and try to out do yourself this month.  When it’s all said and done, I want my blogs, my poems to feel like you are watching a movie or reading a history textbook. I’m trying to make history and I want every blogger to do the same and be proud of your blogs and take pride in your work.  I’m going all out, I’m going to upload some of the most deepest, extreme topic, questions. I’m going all out for the next two months. I plan to change the world with my blogging lol. Well let me calm down, that’s to far but you know I want be different from everybody else and I encourage you all to be different. Don’t be like nobody else, be different, be unique, share your thoughts.   A  few question to all the fellow bloggers(no need to comment below but just think), if you had to share your blog with the world, what blog would you pick to share with the world? What do want to accomplish with blogging?  If you had to delete a blog of your, what would it be? What blog of your got the most likes? What blog of yours got the most comments? Who is your favorite blogger? Out of all your bloggers, who is your biggest supporter? If it wasn’t for blogging, how would you release your content? If you could pick a blogger to meet in real life, who would you pick? Another very personal deep question, do think it’s possible to fall in love with a blogger on word press and if you are in love with a blogger, what would you do about it? In fact, what if you was in love with a blogger that was already married, would you stalk his or her page, or would you delete him/her so you won’t be distracted? The few questions that I asked, no need to comment, just think about it

 

 

As I look up at the sky,
Wondering why it gets so dark at five.
I remind myself it’s the winter,

but I’m still reminiscing about the summer.
At this time the bats are awake,

But I stay inside for the sake,
of my protection
Too cold outside, I don’t need to catch an infection.
Shadow in the winter is visible the longest.

Besides the weather being the coldest,
Trees look dead and hopeless.

Animals choose to hibernate,

birds choose to migrate.

You look up for the stars, but you receive snow,
To cover the dead flowers since they not gonna grow.

At 5 o clock, the sky is space black.

Play with frosty the snowman , but his real name is Jack.

Always the coldest at the beginning and ending of the year.
Earth tilted from the sun the furthest this time of the year.

The wind is cold and bitter.
Night time comes 4 hours earlier unlike summer.
The truth behind the shadow of winter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let me see how deep you think when you comment below, send me a pic of an ice breaker? If you send me what I’m looking for, I will personally go on your blog and reblog the post I like most lol 

What About Men?

 

 

  Two days ago, I wrote a blog about my views on women

(click link below if you haven’t read my previous blog)

(“What makes A Woman A Slut”). 

I know a few of you that follow me have read my previous blog and requested a follow up blog on men. This was my most challenging blog. In this blog, I will talk about my opinions regarding men and how they are judged compared to women. Not only will this blog talk about men with high body counts, it will talk about how men are judged, and what’s places men in the “Niggas ain’t shit category”.

We can agree that women are judged in many ways and one way she is judged is by her body count. For those of you that don’t know, a body count is the amount of people you had sex with. People will classify a woman with a high boy count as a slut, thot ,hoe , hoe ass bitch, skank and many other names. But like many of you that are curious to know, what about men? What are men labeled when their body counts are higher than football numbers?

Unfortunately, in this society men with high body counts aren’t  judged harshly like women that have high body counts. The reason why women are judged more harshly is because women with high body counts are judged harshly by both genders. Men on the other hand, are only judged harshly by women when having a high body count.  Men usually glorify other men when they have such an enormous amount of bodies. Most men actually want a high body count because  most men believe a high body count could make him more popular and give him more confidence.  I don’t judge a man or woman off their body count. It’s more than just a high body count to determine rather a man or woman lacks morals. Now I am going to talk about how men are judged compared to women.

Now as I said, men with high body counts are usually praised upon by other men. But a lot of men in this world are considered “Fuck boys” or are placed in “Niggas ain’t shit” category.  According to the average person, this is why men labeled as  fuck boys or placed in the “Niggas ain’t shit” category?

  1. A man that’s just want’s pussy and have no intentions in being in a relationship
  2. A man the cheats on his wife/girlfriend

Now let’s break this down and I will explain why men that just want pussy are judged. A fuck boy is a guy who doesn’t respect women, yet relies on her heavily for one thing. He is a guy who is distant, doesn’t care about a women’s time, self-absorbed and is never looking for anything serious relationship wise. Women want sex just as much as men do, but women(not all) want men to respect them. Respect comes first and a fuck boy doesn’t respect women because his only interest is to gain access to her private territory by any means necessary.  But if a man is only interested in looking for sex, but still respects women is that a bad thing? If a man just wants sex from a women he is attracted to, does that automatically means he is disrespectful to her?  Men aren’t judged by the number of bodies, but they are judged for just only wanting sex. When a man just wants sex and nothing else, the average woman will define him a fuck boy and place him in the “niggas aint shit” category. To be honest I don’t see nothing wrong with a man just only wanting sex from a girl he finds attractive if he’s honest to her. I believe you can be a gentleman if you are only interested in having sex and not commitment. The problem is people in society automatically assume a guy is a fuck boy if he rejects commitment but only wants sex. As I said in my last blog, you don’t need to be relationship to have sex.  Also just because a man cheats on his wife/girlfriend does not automatically define him as a fuckboy. You can’t judge a man if you don’t know him. Until you know the reason why he cheated, or why he is only interested in sex and not commitment, don’t place him in the “Niggas ain’t shit category”  Shortly I will discuss  some factors that defines a man as fuck boy and the factors that places him in the “Niggas ain’t shit” category but before I do, I will briefly discuss another thing that women judge men harshly on.

 

 

                                       Wack Sex 


A lot of men will relate to this. Now I understand women don’t want a boring sex life but women judge men who are inexperienced very harshly when it comes to the sex department and I think that’s unfair. What confuses me is women will complain about fuck boys just wanting sex from them, but will dump the good guy in a heartbeat if he can’t satisfy her. Let me explain something, women hate “WACK DICK” with a passion. Women hate “SMALL DICK” with a passion. But why? Why judge a man on what he doesn’t have no control over? Sex can be taught it just takes a little practice. Bad sex should not be the only reason why you should leave or cheat on your partner. Inexperienced men get judged more harshly than inexperienced women when it comes to sex.

 

 

   I will now discuss what are the seven factors that places men in the “Niggas ain’t  shit”category”                    

                                     

                                                           Take a look at this list below


  1. Being a deadbeat father
  2. Lying to a woman in order to get some pussy
  3. Believing a hoe can’t turn into a housewife
  4. Acting tough with a woman, but don’t do nothing when another man is in his face
  5. Having an affair with your homie’s girl or wife
  6. Disrespecting his mother
  7.  7.A rapists

                                               Being a deadbeat Father


Being a deadbeat father to me is the 2nd worst on the list. Why the fuck would you bring children in this world if you have no intention of taking care of them?  To all the women that are having sex, be careful who you are having unprotected sex with.  Hell half of these men don’t even that they have kids that exist in this world. Some of these men will have sex with multiple women unprotected but don’t check themselves for STD’s. As a man you need to take care of your children. Every child has the right to know who is father is. Now there are deadbeat mothers in this world and they are just as bad. I believe deadbeat fathers are judged more harshly then deadbeat mothers (everybody may not agree with this) . Have you notice that Mother’s day is more popular than Father’s day and have you ever wonder why?

                                         Lying to a woman in order to get pussy


Why do men have to lie in order to get some pussy from a girl he want to fuck? Why can’t men just be honest and tell women what they really want instead of lying to them? Men will lie and make all these false promises to the girl he is talking to telling her he wants commitment , meanwhile he is bragging his homeboys, spreading his sexual business about how good he hitting it. Women aren’t sex objects.

 

                                      Believing a hoe can’t turn into a house wife


I use to believe that a hoe can’t turn into a housewife as well. But I realized, it was ignorant for me to accept this logic. You can’t judge a person if you weren’t in their past. Not saying that it’s acceptable to be a hoe, but a lot of promiscuous women are depressed and use sex as in addiction to escape the misery in their life(I will talk more about this in my future blog)

 

                          Acting tough with woman, but don’t nothing when another man is in his  face


Some men are so quick to act tough with women, calling them out their name, even physically fighting with them but won’t do a fucking thing when a man gets in his face. This type of guy is a pussy. Women do the same thing. They will act tough with men, calling him out his name, getting in his face but won’t do a fucking thing when another woman get in her face.

 

                                       Having an affair with your homie’s girl or wife


You ain’t shit if you fucking your best friend’s wife or girlfriend. You lack morals, provide no loyalty, and a fucking snake. Women that are fucking their husband’s best friends are just as bad.

 

                                                       Disrespecting his mother


No man should never disrespect his mother. Nothing is more powerful that a mother’s love. Your mother made so many sacrifices for you. Let me explain something to the men that disrespect their mothers. When you get your heartbroken, your mother heart is broken. When your baby momma kick you out the house and fucking other niggas, your mother will let you stay with her until you land on your feet. When you drowning in bills, and child pay is killing your pockets, the only person that’s gonna give you money to help you survive is your mother. Most of these girls you messing with don’t give a fuck about you. Never ever put another woman before your mother. Your mother is number 1.

 

                                                                       A rapist


This is the worst on the list. I hate a rapist. Rape is worse than murder. If you ever raped a female, forget being place in the “niggas ain’t shit” category you deserve a life sentence in prision.  I won’t go into detail because I will write a blog about this in the future.

 

 

 

In the future, I will write two more blogs about sluts and fuck boys. I will discuss how women become sluts and men become fuck boys. This blog and as well as my previous blog, talks about what defines a woman as a slut and what defines a man as a fuck boy. But it’s important to know how and why men and women become this way. Thank you for reading and if you have an opinion, comment below

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A question for women to  think to themselves 

If a guy you barely know invited you over to his house and you have no intention on having sex with him, would you accept the invitation?

Also  and let’s say if a woman go by a man’s house she barley knows (keyword barely) would you automatically assume she wants to have sex with him?
I know this question is very random and personal but there was heated conversation online about this topic and I’m curious to what some people think 

Sex Or True Love?

Good question I thought about a while ago and I want everybody that’s reading this to think to themselves
Would you rather live the rest of your life
having sex but never find true love ever
or living the rest of your life with a soul mate that loves you and you love right back but never ever having sex again for the rest of your life?

Let’s look at the first option:

Sex is definitely a stress reliever and one of life’s greatest pleasure.
Sex is a great form of exercise.
Sex can put you in a better mood.
Sex is also needed for the growth of  the human population which is crucial if your somebody that want to be a parent.
Sex can build your confidence.
Sex without love is simple since you can have sex with different people enjoying your freedom.
A healthy sex life can make you look younger
Ture love is not always simple.
Falling in love can be expensive causing you to spend money every so often.
True love can limit your freedom and take time away from your close family and friends.
True love can make you feel sad or jealous over somebody else that’s not even a threat to your relationship
True love can cause you to overthink things in your head which can lead to arguments.
True love will limit your privacy.
True love could have you worrying over your significant other which can bring you more stress.

Let’s look at the second option

Fornication is a sin.
Sex with the wrong person could have you in child support or  deadbeat parent.
Sex is commonly confused with love and could make a situation more complicated.
Sex could lead to STD’s (even with a condom)
Sex can distract you from other responsibilities because sex (depending on the person can be addictive)
Being sexually active means that you are more vulnerable to abuse and mistreatment from your partner or from others
Sex without love could get tedious  fast
If you never have sex ever, you will always be curious to what’s it like to have sex in your mind which can make you grumpy.
Lack of sex could make you miserable so having sex can keep you well balanced
True love brings happiness and joy
True love brings comfort
True love can give you peace of mind
True love subdue boredom alot
True love without children could be the best thing because you can travel the world anytime you want and a life without children could safe you money

Love and sex have both it’s pro’s and con’s.
Think about the times you regret having sex with the wrong person or a person you wasn’t in love it and ask yourself was it worth it?
Think about how sex on a rainy day was a stress reliever and put you in a better mood the next day and how the greatest feeling is when you climax and ask yourself is it worth it?
Think about how being in love led to those late night arguments and long paragraph text messages, over thinking and having you in your emotions and we all have our bad days at work, school, or other things and love is just adding to it with the huge resonbility it comes with so ask yourself is it worth?
Think about how being in love is a wonderful feeling , like the late night walks and deep conversations. All the pictures taken on various dates, the sleep overs, cuddleing under the blankets next to somebody and learning about different things and being introduced into a new world now ask yourself is it worth it?

So another words would you rather live the rest of your life finding true everlasting love but never having sex ever?
Or would you rather have sex anywhere, anybody, anytime but never ever finding your true love and soul mate which means you die alone?

To make this choice easier think about it like this, what’s more boring a life without never experiencing  sex or life without never experiencing love?

When I ask this question to those of you reading this, look at it as if you had to make this choice by Sunday, what’s life mean to you more finding love or having sex?
So remember if you choose love over sex and you don’t have any children, then once you make this choice you can’t have children and you will live rest of your life without having any children?
Also remember if you choose sex over love, then you have the option of having children and you have the option of even being married becuase you don’t need to love to get married, but do you really wanna be married with children but you and your spouse don’t love each other?
Is that an healthy environment for the children?

A sexless marrige being horny all the time with real true  love with many things in common  and many things to talk about or a  marrige that lacks love with not much to to talk but guaranteed the best sex of your life and never leaving the house horny?

(Btw if you choose love over sex you can’t masturbate or watch point ever)
(If you choose sex over love you can’t watch any romantic movies ever and no love making just strictly great satisfying rough sex)

Also keep in mind that things that are harder to find are usually more appreciated than things you can achieve easily

I asked so many questions on here for all my fellow followers and others reading this.
If you plan to comment on this, you can just one of the questions I asked and answer the one that interest you.

Thankful for all my followers and all the likes and comments on my blogs.
I love to write poetry and talk about things people are scared to talk about.
I tend to be a deep thinker so I posts blogs expressing some of my thoughts so others can relate.
I try to relate to the people that’s why my poetry can be so relatable and I will continue to post poetry and other deep topics for all of you to read.
What I like most about having followers is that it’s an oppurnitiy for me to learn from my followers and for my followers to learn from me.
God bless you all.