Is it healthy to have a close friend as a Ex?

This post is a very short post.

 

Now before I get into today’s topic, I saw  good question on twitter. The question was “Ladies, if a dude had flowers sitting in the car for you on the first date. Would y’all say he’s doing too much?” Me personally as a man, I think flowers is not a terrible thing but I would wait until the third or fourth date. But for the women reading this question, comment below and tell what you think about this!

 

Now please read my last post What will My future Blogs Will Be About?. 

Now is it healthy to have a Ex as a close friend? 

 

Unless you have a child with your ex, I don’t see an good reason why a person would communicate with their Ex. I believe if somebody is still in contact with their ex, then they probably stilling fucking.

The top three reasons why I believe people still keep in contact : 

  1. They still love you
  2. You still love them
  3. You’re lonely

 

Just a few questions for you to think about!

  1. If you just got in a new relationship and your new partner is close friends with their ex, how would you feel?
  2. If your current partner was invited to dinner by their ex, and your current partner was willing to go to dinner with their ex, how would you respond?
  3. Have you ever kept in contact with your ex, while dating somebody new and did the current partner know that you was still in contact with your ex?
  4.  Is it possible to have a successful relationship with your new partner, if you just broke up with your ex?
  5. Besides the three reasons I listed above, why do you think people still keep in contact with their ex?
  6. What if you was friends with your ex first before ya got together, now after ya realized a relationship between ya isn’t the best option and ya just rather remain friends, would you expect your new partner to accept the fact that you are friends with your ex?

 

Pick at least 2 out of the six questions and comment below and if you have any questions, feel free to comment!

 

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What qualities do you believe are most important in friendships?

Key elements
in friendship
but a difference being friends
and acting friendly.
Two people will eat dinner at friendly’s

but is the companionship reciprocated?
One might see the other as friend
but other is only close for business purposes

Or it could be the hate and jealously
that keeps the friend close at all cost.
I always believe jealously is more common
than loyalty
because people hearts are made out of ice and frost.

Image result for heart made of ice

The snow looks pretty, but the weather is cold.
The snow is the smile, and the weather is the heart.
A friend will stay for a while, until you drop you armor
and then they will stab you with something sharp.
It usually happens when when a loved one is lost
or when you go broke
or when your heart is broken for sure
from an ex
that left you bleeding because you felt comfortable
Not wearing your bullet proof vest.
Then soon or later your friend and ex become great friends
You may not know but
your friend is the one that handed your ex the 9mm gun
and your friend is scooping you as a target
with a sniper
just in case your ex miss.
Friend will shoot the shot
Then come visit you in the hospital
and give you a kiss.
Jesus taught us to watch out for Judas.
A perfect man was was betrayed for money
in a generation without technology.
So do you really don’t think in this era that you don’t have enemies?
Enemies are friends we consider family.