“Take as long as you want”,
Hmm is this statement overrated?
Even the strongest lungs aren’t perfect.
I know that has nothing to do with this,
but think about it for a minute.
Let your conscience visit for a second
and listen.
When you say “Take as long as you want”
do you really mean it?
Does patience exist forever or does it
began to vanish?
It’s hard to abandon the ones you love
or the ones that mean well and giving it
eveything they got, but
what if it never get better?
Are u going to help that person forever?
Are you going to stay around that person forever?
Do you know anything on this planet that last forever?
Well have you ever written a love letter?
After you written that love letter did you get rejected after?
Your heart just experinced a disaster.
You gave everything you got but it still didn’t get better.
Here are some provided examples:
Imagine as a woman being with a man that can’t obtain an erection.
Its the beginning of a relationship, he gets embrassed, but you work with him to fix.
But it’s almost 2 years and still don’t notice a difference.
Its still the same shit.
He visited a urologist, received cialis, but erections are still non-existent.
So in this case 2 years later, would you still have patience even though you love him?
Would you reminisce the amazing sexual intercourse from you exes?
Would start to wish that your current boyfriend had the confidence like your ex boyfriend?
Your ex-boyfriend calls you, would you reject his call or would you answer it?
Vice versa as man being with a woman that want to pratice abstinence.
She necessarily don’t want to wait before marriage, but she want you to be patient
with sex
since she had really bad experiences in her previous relationships.
Its been 3 years, you know her deepest secrets, she tell you everything about her personal busniess, you seen her in her weakest moments, you wiped the tears,
you always tell her how much you care,
ya hold hands in public, you treat her like a queen in private, you showed her that in this world, they are true gentleman, and no matter how much lust dwells within the hemispheres of your brain, you continue to remain patient agaian and again.
Hell, you barely even had the chance to caress her, and you know sex is something you been wanting to have with her, so you finally approach the idea of sex with her, telling here that you are ready take it to the next level, but she says she still don’t feel comfortable with you to take it to the bedroom, and she need more time.
You say its okay I understand , no problem that’s fine.
But is it really fine or are you lying?
Are you willing to wait 3 more years?
Are you willing to wait 2 more years?
Is this really fair?
Would you abandon the one you love even though you care?
Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself is this true.
If you gave it everything you got but still wasn’t getting it, would you want that person trying help you abandon you?
Do you know what it feels like to have somebody give up on you?
Questions:
After reading this poem, I provided some questions for you to think about:
1) How do you truly know that you are ready to have sex with your signficant other? Is being comfortable a good enough reason to have sex or is there more to it?
2) If you boyfriend you have been with for a while, is having a hard time obtaining an erection and he tried everything from visiting the urologist and taking medications but nothing is working, could this affect your relationship?
3) Does being too patient get you hurt in the long run?
4) What is one thing no matter how hard you try that you just couldn’t accomplish?
5) Does hardwork really pay off?
Pick two out of fivethe questions that caught your interest the most and comment below?
