Should Women Pursue Men?

 Should Women Start Approaching Men?



The dating environment have changed drastically over the years. Just like technology, the speed of relationships advances at a fast pace as time is moving by every second of the day. On social media, I heard seen many men post on their social media accounts stating that they believe that women should pursue men that they are interested in or have an attraction for.



To be honest, I think women should approach a man that she in interested in, rather than waiting for him to wait for him to make the first move. I can’t speak for all men, but somebody like myself likes a woman with confidence. I think it’s very appealing when a women pursue for something that she wants. This demonstrates confidence and independence.  I will stop it here since I don’t want to be long winded so I have listed some questions at the end of the post for you to answer in my comment section because I am interested in hearing your opinion.




  1. What’s your opinion on women making the first move and approaching men?
  2. As far as women making the first move, does this make women look desperate?
  3. Why do you think most men prefer women to make the first move?
  4. If women was to approach men instead of wanting for men to make the first move, do you think women would actually date the men that they want, instead of responding to the men that want them?




4 thoughts on “Should Women Pursue Men?

  1. It’s all good for women to let a man know that she’s interested . After that it’s on him to make that move and pursue . But I’m not for women constantly pursuing a man . If you know she’s interested , make a move .

    • Good point of view!
      I do agree with the first two sentences of your comment.

      In this post or regard, I was referring to like for example:
      If she see a guy at a bar, gym, school etc and she finds him attractive, instead of hoping that he notices, she can go up to him and approach and start a conversation 1st.
      I believe this goes both ways and men should do this as well

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