Many people think loneliness is a problem but  everybody been through it

When it comes to the life of a human  people who suffer loneliness will do anything to have other people in it.

But what makes a person lonely,
I’ll break it down for you only

Lonely means being without company
Cut off from the outside world which is solitary
Going through life without having nobody
But even more important question, does being single makes a person lonely?
Single means solitary but not necessarily sadness?
Relationship means companionship but not necessarily happiness?

Single is the art of choosing to be alone but I say choose because they say somebody is for everybody

Relationship is the art of choosing someone but does a relationship really overcome the feeling of being lonely?

Lonely makes a person stronger

But they say strength is developed through numbers
But however,
Being lonely makes you live independent.

Independence of lifestyle can lead to productivity and fulfillment. 
Once you have a solid approach to things, there’s nothing in life you won’t be able to do.
Now lets talk about the opposite of being independent 
Which is being dependent in which some relationships demonstrates that is
Relationship to depend on one other, your true significant lover
But however its not always the case that your significant lover will be with you forever
So if you and your mate depend on one another 
And rely on a relationship as your one way ticket of being a survivor,

how will you survive, when you significant other  disappear from your life? 

14 thoughts on “Lonely

  1. Fantastic post!! Such great insight!We must take care of our own identity especially when in a love relationship. The tools to cope will be there when possible devastation occurs. It can be amazing to carry each other, yet debilitating when carrying on alone. Loneliness can be an important time in our lives to reflect and build a new foundation for living!

    • This was a perfect response. WOW I don’t have anything to add. This alone can be a post itself.
      Thank you for taking the time out to visit
      I hope to see you again and I promise later on today I will be checking our blog out

      • Thank you too! I love your post! I related to everything you wrote! My blog is long and over due for construction…but time is limited. Don’t let my writing scare you😁 my head is on straight. Most of my poems are about those I love and have known, and come across in my life. (Hence the person’s)
        Happiness to you…

      • Yesterday, I read your post that told your readers that you would be on hiatus. Will you be leaving your blog open? Soon the snow will be falling here , and I have come across blogs that I can’t wait to read when the fire is crackling! Now that I discovered your writing, I have added your blog to my list. Thank you for stopping by my poems! Happy travels indeed! Fabulous!

      • Yes my blog will be forever open.
        In about 3- 4 weeks I will be taking my hiatus. It could be a permanent one.
        I’m trying to expand my poetry and reach across the world.
        I may try to see if I can become a spoken word poet.
        I’m glad I met you and keep writing.
        Poems are fantastic

      • Wishing you all success along your journey! I am sure from time to time…I will wonder how it all went for you! Have a great journey!! And thank you!

  2. Very insightful! You can definitely be in a relationship and feel lonely. I think we have to be careful of finding a companion simply for the purpose of never feeling lonely, because we can end up filling a void rather than addressing the root problem.

    • The last part you said was so true.
      Loneliness is something you have to handle on your own.
      Having people around is just a temporary fix.
      Key is be happy with yourself before trying to commit

  3. I can definitely say that you can be in a relationship and still be completely ALONE! It’s a self-thing, not a person, career or materialistic thing. Each person has to cope with their own feelings about why they are lonely or feel such.

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