What Have I Learned 

1. Never apologize for something that wasn’t your fault

2. Nice guys don’t finish last but they do struggle at the start of the race

3. Loyalty is junior high school vocabulary but you won’t really understand loyalty until you been betrayed by your close friend

4. Jealously is more common than loyalty.

5. Guilt will eat you alive from the inside out until you don’t recongize who you are anymore.

6. Complaining about your problems don’t solve anything

7. There is a difference between being alone and feeling lonely.

8. Being financially stable doesn’t mean your ready to be a parent

9. Being successful doesn’t mean that you are happy.

10. Words have the power to build and destroy.

11. A stupid choice doesn’t automatically define you as being stupid.

12. You don’t need  marrige and children to be happy.

13. Good sex is not a permanent solution to a for lack of communication  in your marrige.

14. You should never judge a cheater if you don’t know the whole situation.

15. No matter how humble you are drama is promised to everbody.

16. Time and memories are precious.

17. Understanding history will make you look forward into the future.

18. If you not on a high school reading level and you don’t know basic math, people will take advantage of you 

19. You obtain knowledge and you relay on common sense to survive.

20. Every job there is always at least one supervisor that is corrupted

21. It’s very easy to be lazy but being lazy will make you regretful when your dreams aren’t accomplished 

22. Money doesn’t buy you happiness but being poor doesn’t buy you anything 

23. Most say they hate being involved in drama but some love gossiping about people’s drama

24. School is important but does not teach you everything

25. Wearing dirty clothes looks bad on the outside but that doesn’t make you dirty on the inside.

26. I rather die young and happy than to die old and miserable

27. We can’t change how we look, but we can change how we think

28. Hardest thing to do in life is trying to understand a human so just accept that we all think differently

29. Loyalty is pushed to the side when money involved.

30. Sometimes poor people steal to survive and sometimes rich people steal becuase they are greedy so anybody can be a thief 

31. People will brag  about everything  for attention when something positive happens to them but will remain quiet as a mouse when something negative happens to them

32. Just becuase you make money the legal way don’t mean that your hands are clean

33. Don’t trust a person that you just met that act nice to you for no reason

34. There is a difference between a happy couple and a healthy relationship

35. Impressing others don’t matter if you not impressing yourself

36. Real friends say nice things about you behind your back.

37. An unplanned pregnacy at a young age doesn’t mean your immature, how you handle the situation is what defines your maturity level.

38. A real girlfriend will love you regardless of how much money you have, but if you broke and jobless and you don’t at least make the effort to do better for yourself, she will leave you

39. Men and women have it hard in different ways.

40. Sometimes a stranger will do more for you than a close friend or family will

41.People won’t really care when you do positive things on a daily but you do one thing negative and everbody criticizing.

42. Very rude to respond with an arrogant statement when somebody gives you an compliment, just say thank you and  appreciate the compliment.

43. Watch out for these scams, 99% strangers that say they are interested in making money with you are trying to rob you

44. If a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship, don’t expect him to change his mind, move on.

45. If a man tells you he doesn’t want to have sex tonight, respect his decision

46. Being a gentleman does not make you look like a punk 

47. A man that  brags about cheating on his wife/girlfriend will be the same man begging for his wife/girlfriend to come back when she leaves his ass.

48. Just because two people love each other and their intentions are good does not mean that the relationship will last.

49. Some people don’t practice what they preach 

50. Try to learn something new everyday 

51. Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it 

52. Asking questions is a common fear

53. People will try to give you advice on something they know nothing about just to seem like they are smart 

54. No matter how much money a man got, how nice his smile is, how nice he  dress, how popular he is, how much power he got,  at least one girl will reject him.

55. Mixed signals are temporary in the beginning but if somebody likes you, it will become obvious 

56. You never know, somebody could be in love with you and you may never know for as long as you live

57. You can be faithful in a relationship/marrige  and still be a shitty significant other/spouse

58. Nothing should never come between friendship

60. No matter how pretty a girl is, not every guy will find you attractive

61. It’s very common for female to have more guy friends then girl friends.

62. The dating scene has changed drastically compared to thirity years ago.

63. Being proud of yourself is not possible for some 

64. Sometimes you can hurt a person unintentionally 

65. We will all hurt at least one person feelings and get our feelings hurt by at least one person 

66. To some girls money is not everything, but finding a guy with the right type of personality and with a good high paying job is a dream come true for almost all women

67. We all will die so earth is just a long dream and death is the day we wake up 

One day when you get a chance, just come up with your own quotes based on your life experinces and see how much quotes you can come up with  or list all of the life experiences you have learned. Remember you know more than you think you know

A Game Of 31 Questions

This is a game I made up like two days ago. If you view my previous post on questions like I Have Questions and I Have More Questions! you notice that I ask questions on a deep level where you have to think and I allow you to choose one question out of the list of questions. This post will be slightly different. You wanna know why I purposely made 31 questions? Well because there are 31 days in a month. Well technically 28-31 but 31 is the highest number in a month. We all have a birth date and the date number is in between 1 – 31. So if you interested in participating in this game you have to answer the question that is regarding your date number. For example, I was born June 22 so that means my date number is the 22nd so  I would answer  question 22. To really make this game interesting, you would need to play with a group of people at least 10 people. You can play this at a party or a barbecue. If you interested in playing this game, you can copy and paste the questions below and gather your friends and cousins on Christmas and play this game.  If you are interested in answering a question off the list below in my comment section, answer the question regarding your birth date. Example if your birth date is February 7th,  then you will answer the 7th question. When you answer that question, there is no in between, not sure, maybe, you have to give a straight forward, direct answer.


1)If a person took your child’s life, and you crossed paths with the person that  took your child’s life and you had a gun in your hand, would you pull the trigger?

2)Where do you see yourself in 40 years?

3)What is harder between the two, to forgive when someone hurt you or to not lust?

4)Would you rather die tomorrow or spend the rest of your life in the most violent prison?

5)If you was in prison, would you kill a person just to survive even though committing a murder is a sin?

6)Be honest, for the men that are single , if an attractive woman who is a co-worker was to grab you in a inappropriate area, would you file a complaint? For the women, if you had a male boss at work told you that you are attractive and you find him attractive as well, and your boss offered you a promotion but only because of your looks, would you take the promotion?

7) For those of you that watched or read “Act like a lady, think like a man” what was the best advice and worst advice that Steve Harvey provided in the book or movie?

8)If you was in love with somebody since you was a child and that person you love since childhood , loves you right back but the person you love is currently married and you met the spouse on numerous occasions and you and the spouse don’t like each other and the person you love is having problems in his/her marriage and one of the problems is lack of communication and lack of sex, and you and this person that your in love happen to just randomly met up at the bar, and this person is talking to you complaining the marriage and this person says to you I don’t want to go home, is it okay if I spend the night at your place, what would you say? Also be honest, is this a easy question that with an easy straightforward answer or is this a question where you would contemplating on what to do?

9)What has more power,  love or fear?

10)What’s the difference knowledge and common sense?

11)What do you think will get you killed faster, being unloyal to your closes friend or being loyal to your enemy?

12)If you had to pick one sex  position to do for the rest of your life what sex position would you pick?

13)What do you think is more dangerous, being a porn star or construction worker?

14)Would you rather listen to your  favorite song for a year straight an and only that song or would you rather watch your favorite TV show for a year straight and only that TV show?

15)If you was to die tomorrow, is there any secrets that you taking with you to the grave(if you answer this you don’t have to go in detail just simple yes or no)?

16)Would you rather be younger or wiser?

17)What’s is more  interesting  being an author or computer programmer?

18)For the women, what’s worst someone ruining your prom dress or your wedding dress? For men what’s worst having your tuxedo ruined on prom night or on your wedding day?

19)Would you rather have your significant other break up with you the day before your wedding or during the honeymoon?

20)For those of you that are married, would you rather have a spouse with an extremely low sex drive and I’m talking only wants to have sex like  once a year and barely communicates, no romance but always faithful to you or a spouse you matches you sex drive, romantic, sweet, willing to open up, but cheats at least once every 3 months? (If you answer this, pick one don’t say “neither”)

21) On earth what is the most precious thing?(not regarding people but answer I’m looking for an answer such as money, love,time, memories ect)

22) For those of you that are interested in playing this game with me, ask me a hard question in the comment section?

23) Does the weekends go by faster when you sleep all weekend or when you actually have to do chores and run errands that you hate doing?

24) If you  your teenage child felt like they was ready to have sex, what would you tell them?

25)Out of all the books have you read, which book that you read that you can relate to the most?

26) Is good sex needed to make a marriage last (be honest) ?

27) If Malcolm x was alive, what is one question you would ask him if you saw him face to face?

28) Would you rather take a cold shower everyday or eat your dinner cold without warming it up everyday?

29) For those you of you that went to a public high school, how do you think your life would of been like now if you would of went to a private high school instead, do you think your life would be exactly the same or different? For those of you that went to a private high school what do your life would of been like now if you would of went to a public high school, do you think life would be the same or do you think there would be a difference? (If you answer this please don’t say you not sure lol)

30) If you had to give up a body part such between your arms and legs which one would you give up between your arms and your legs?

31)For the women, if you asked a guy out on a first date, would you pay the bill or expect him to pay the bill?(please don’t say I would never ask a guy on a first date lol this is just a what if question lol) For the men, if a girl asked you out on a first date do you think she should pay the bill?


Pick the question that falls on the number of your birth date and comment below an answer and I  will comment back if I agree or disagree with your response