Do I Perfer Strippers?Women Got Me Fed Up 

Listen to me
I’m not selling a dream
I’m not a company
that sell products
I’m here to tell you
I had enough.
I mean why should
I try?
What’s the point of being nice?
I appreciate them
but they don’t appreciate me
Why can’t you understand me?
I’m done I rather just be single
I done with Christian mingle
or any kind of dating site
I’m headed in a new direction in life.
I thank God for my allowing
my heart to be broken
because now I have access
to many women.
Women are complicated
but strippers are simple
Not looking for commitment
because I became exhausted
from being ignored.
Tipping the strippers
while I’m getting drunk
and for extra money
I can get a quick fuck
I mean why take a woman
on a date?
Where I can get a stripper
easily that has a nice shape.
Why do I have to dress up
and impress a woman
where I can pick a stripper
of my choosing.
Spend money on date
where I’m not
guarantee another date
where I can sex from
a stripper as long as I
The process is simple
just busniess
and I don’t need to meet
her parents or kids.
Oral sex and intercourse
but of course I’ll be protected.
I have no choice.
Strippers aren’t that reckless
they too don’t want any type
of infection.
I met plenty of strippers
a little ratchet they can be
but they accept me easily.
Very friendly and
easy going.
No attitude unlike these
other girls.
Don’t ask for
much unlike these other girls.
With strippers I can
wake up everyday
and be proud becuase
I know for a fact
that I’m not getting cheated on.
Strippers and jerking off to porn
until dawn
while I listen to ratchet songs
I don’t mind being home alone
on A Friday Night.
This is really the life.
I be telling guys all the time
yo don’t sweat no female
because they give mix signals
that be confusing as  hell.
Strippers are straight to the point.
You ask me why am I acting like
Simple nice guys get dissed
and women chase the men
that treat them like shit.
So now I turn into a piece of shit.
So I guess now I am
in the “Men Are Trash”
Don’t bother me
because I’m still gonna
get p*say.
Listen  I am about
to end this
but what I am going to say to you
is most important and potent.
When you reading this
remember this
I once was a nice guy
maybe a little shy
but I use to be the guy
that would spare a woman’s
The type of guy
that would step front of a bullet
as a scarfice.
I use to love women more
then my own life.
I use to treat them like queens
let then have their
Eventually they use me
and eventually I get played.
They take my kindness
for weakness
leaving me weak
like I caught a disease
So I was the nicest guy
that turned mean.
Being a gentleman
dont’ always get you the p*ssy
sometimes it make you look
like a p*ssy
Believe me.
The guys that act ruthless and mean
usually get the most p*ssy
Now for the women reading this
it’s not all about p*ssy
I swear it’s  not.
But sometimes I been
more than patient
providing love and affection.
I want to commit to you
but you say you gotta to think
about it.
I think shit
what can I do
to prove  to her I’m a gentleman?
So many unanswered question
leaves me in confusion
until I’m draining every ounce
of energy out of me
while you just lying to me
stringing me alone
like a viloin
while fucking a different
man that’s not looking for a commitment
while I put in all that fucking
work to show you I’m different
from other men
and you said yourself
I’m better than all
the other men
from the past.
Fuck this
Fuck commitment
Paying for sex
is my mission.
I jerk off to porn
for the rest of my life
I’ll still get my nut
because you women drive me nuts
Ya women can have the shitty men
because when they break your heart
again and again
I will have the last laugh at the end.

I wrote this poem for all the nice men that get taken advantage of.
Just like women, men get heartbroken too.
There are alot of men that are trash but let me tell you something, alot of men that are trash were once good men. Men that actually respect women and would do anything to make a woman happy. But guess what, when we  act nice and act like a gentleman, some women will take our kindness for weakness. When I wrote this, I was describing how I was feeling when I got heartbroken. I’m not gonna lie, I was angry and it changed me. Can’t lie I was so broken and angry I almost had a grudge towards all women. So every word I wrote is exactly how I felt. At one point I thought women were the problem. I thought women were the sneaky ones. I thought women played too many games and it wasn’t worth it to treat them good. I thought marrige and having a family was a waste of time. But I was hurt. As time move on, I started  healing more and more. I realized that everybody get hurt. We all hurt people because we been hurt and we take it out on everbody else. It took me a while to realize that there are good women(not many)that appericate good men and it’s wrong to hold every woman accountable for what one girl did. A heart break will change you.

32 thoughts on “Do I Perfer Strippers?Women Got Me Fed Up 

  1. I love the way you ended it, I was first afraid. Somebody said, you cannot stop using vehicles because of accidents. You can never stop boarding air planes because of plane crash. People don’t because of titanic stop voyages on ship. There are bad men, and there are bad women. You cannot just give up because of one. Do not give up! Good people matches bad ones!

  2. This post holds so much truth. It’s hard to open up again once your heart has been broken. You feel like everyone is lying and such. Hard to trust and believe. But like you said there are good people out there still. Your words were a melody on this poem for sure. Thanks for sharing your thoughts once again.

  3. Wow, I can definitely relate to the words of your poem in how I felt as being a “nice” woman who always got hurt, dogged, misused and on and so forth. As much as I want to be the hurtee and hurt guys because of the way I’ve been treated, I could never do it – just wasn’t my character I guess. I’m so sorry you got hurt but so glad that you have found healing even in writing about it which is the greatest therapy. I pray you find someone that loves as much as you and gives more than you – maybe it’s a fairy tale but I guess that’s just the hopeless romantic in me speaking,lol. Keep writing and spreading truth.

  4. I can relate. Am happy you got over it. I have learnt and am still learning that I am enough, just as I am; don’t have to act in any other way for any other reason….for any other person.

  5. Heart break will make you more beautiful to the person who really loves you. I imagine the imperfection of. Ring broken and put back together something like stained glass. No 2 are ever the same yet still remarkably beautiful. Too many game players and those trying to see who they can out”shine”. So dumb. Even in my circle of girls…. only a couple made the cut and and still my friends. I want honesty and the least amount of drama possible. Keep being the nice guy, the gentleman and the right one will be looking/wanting. Let the rest fall away like they should.

    • I understand what your saying. A heart break does change you though.
      Getting your heart broken will turn you into a savage. Now yes being a player isn’t so wise, but when good men constantly get ignored and fucked over, it will gradually change him. In this generation, it’s very hard to find a soulmate that you can live happily ever after. Happily ever afters aren’t so common in today’s world.
      I agree with about wanting honesty and as well we should be honest towards others. But most people can’t handle the truth.
      So when I wrote this at the time, I ain’t gonna lie, I really felt like it wasn’t worth it to commit. I thought it was better to just live the bachelor life. To be honest there are positives to living the bachelor life. If a person doesn’t want to be in a committed relationship and rather live like a bachelor , then I don’t see nothing wrong with that but as long as he is straight forward and honest with the girls he is messing with.
      When you lie and cheat to get what you want, then you demonstrate that you lack morals.
      Nice women as well get hurt and abused. Sometimes being nice is overrated. I feel you can be nice, but not too nice.
      I appreciate your comment and thank you for reading this

      • Agreed. Most people can’t handle the truth. It’s pretty messed up really. My daughter struggles because I raised her like me. I don’t care if it hurts give it to me straight. From a female perspective, I know I had guys interested in more when I didn’t. I was called ruthless because I would tell them. Look, I like this or that about you, our friendship, but it will never be serious. We can be friends or affectionate sometimes but at the end of the day I ain’t your girl. I think being single has a lot of upsides. I enjoyed the shit out of mine. When I was young and after being divorced. My additional 2 cents… enjoy it. Keep that nice but not too nice honest guy attitude and hopefully your lady will strut right in your life when you least expect it and be worthy of you wanting to change her name. Can’t agree with you more on being too nice. Too many try to take advantage of it. Happily ever after are a lot of work. I am in one. I love him and he loves me. We have both been divorced but believe in the sanctity of marriage. As long as we live with “disposable” lifestyles our relationships will be like that too???? But I think reading this and the response has sparked a post. 🙂

      • Damn I really am feeling this response
        I wish I could reblog comments lol
        Wow I don’t where to start lol
        First of all I am glad you are in a happily ever after and I wish u a healthy relationship ☺
        I wrote a blog like 3 months ago about the truth and lies.
        I respect that your were honest with the men you weren’t interested with becuase most fenlmales will string you along until another guy comes around.
        After reading your two comments I think I may write a post tonight.
        If I upload a post later, would you like it if I give you a shout out on my blog and say your comment encouraged me to write my post?

  6. Interesting to see this from a male perspective. I tend to lean strongly towards the view that men are the problem, but it seems as though it goes both ways. Apparently just being nice is the worst thing you can do for a relationship these days. Very well written.

    • Most men will say women are the problem
      Most women will say men are the problem
      I say they both the problem.
      You have to be careful who you be nice to in this world
      Thank you for your feedback

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