What Makes A Woman A Slut?

Please read before you criticize this blog and assume I am judging women.

This was a topic t I was a little hesitant to post up. But I decided to go with my instincts and post this blog up anyway. I feel like some people can relate to this blog. Now I am not slut shaming any woman at all so if anybody get offended by reading this blog, just comment below and I will  apologize  and I will try my best to explain the meaning of  this blog. In this blog, I will talk about promiscuous women and why women become promiscuous. This is just another topic like any the other topic. Some people will agree with me, some people won’t. I have question (this has nothing to do with blog I am going to talk about)  I am curious, have you ever had somebody commented on your blog that criticized your opinion? Isn’t it annoying when people criticize your opinion or beliefs? It’s okay to disagree with people but at least listen and respect their opinion. If somebody’s blog is offensive to you, then just stop reading it and move on to the next blog.

 

 

What makes a girl a slut?

 

A long time ago, my friend and I had a discussion about promiscuous women and why they act the way do and what makes a woman promiscuous. Many believe a high body count makes a girl promiscuous and  I agree to an extent. But I started thinking and I came to realize that there are other factors that come into play when determining what makes a girl promiscuous.  The definition of a slut is a girl who has many casual sexual partners. If I ever become a father in the future, I would raise my daughter and brimg her up with good morals becuase I wouldn’t want my daughter to be labeled as a slut. I believe women should be selective in who they are having sex with. I was thinking, if a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship but still wants to have causal sex with other men, then I don’t see the problem with that as long as she is using protection. I believe you do not have to be in relationship if you want to have sex because there is a difference between catching feelings for someone and having sex with someone. I believe you don’t need to have feelings for somebody to have sex. So my point , is a high body count enough to determine if a woman is a slut?  Everybody have their opinion regarding that question, but to me I don’t have a straight forward answer to that question so I am going to break my answer down.

As I said in the previous paragraph there are other factors that come into play when I determine what makes a girl a slut.

  1. If she has been pregnant before
  2. If she has caught an STD before
  3. If she slept with somebody that’s more than twice her age
  4. If she had more than 2 one night stands
  5. If she has a habit of sleeping with married men or men committed in a relationship(knowing they are married ahead of time)
  6. Of course obvious, if her body count is more than half her age
  7. Out of her body count, more than half of those men were men she wasn’t in a relationship with(This one is 50/50 because this one is not necessarily mean nothing)

 

Out of the seven that I mentioned above, if a woman can say yes to at least four of these things then that will determine the type of girl that she is. A pregnancy does not automatically  assume that a girl is a slut because unplanned pregnancies happen in marriages all the time. So I don’t want anybody to think that I am judging. A married woman can catch an STD.  An STD does not automatically assume that a woman is slut.  I believe that everybody is entitled to at least two one night stands, now if you have more than two, then I believe  that you make reckless decisions when it comes to sex, but  reckless decisions doesn’t automically define a woman as a slut. If a woman has a habit of sleeping with married men or men that are in a committed relationship, then I believe  this  is slutty behavior which demonstrates that she probably  lacks morals. No woman or man should not sleep with someone’s else spouse. Now if you only had sex with a married man and you knew ahead of time that he was married, then I believe you need to reevaluate your morals and standards. If you  slept with more than one  married man or a man in relationship more than once(key statement “more than once”) then you just don’t care and you are living reckless.  Number 6 and 7 are the ones I am going to go into full detail.

 

As I stated earlier many people believe that a high body count is what makes a woman a slut and to an extent I do agree. But I also stated I do believe a woman don’t need to be in a relationship to have sex with men.

Picture this scenario and tell me what’s more disgusting. You have 2 women,  Vanessa and  Joyce.

Vanessa is 27 and never been in a relationship. She been on a few dates occasionally , but she likes having sex because she has a high sex drive. Her body count is 24 and out of the 24, 23 of those men used protection. Only one  guy she had raw sex with but the one guy she had raw sex with, gave her an STD. She got checked out got rid of the STD and now she makes sure she uses protection with every guy she has sex with in the future. 

Joyce is 30 years old and she is currently single. She has been in four relationships. In every relationship she is known to have pregnancies scares, one of her ex  boyfriends gave her an STD, but  her body count is only 8 men. She been in four relationships so that’s four bodies, the other four  bodies are men she had casual sex with. Out of the four men she had causal  sex with, one is married with 3 kids, the other is engaged ,and she is currently having sex with both of them. Once in a while(not often) they don’t use protection. Not only that, once a month she still have with sex with her ex  from the past that gave her an STD   and he never uses protection at all and on top of that he has a girlfriend. Joyce only has eight bodies. Joyce body count is a lot lower than Vanessa but Joyce is more reckless because of the amount of unprotected sex she had. Vanessa body count is much higher, but 98% of the time she is careful with who she sleeps with and she only have sex with single men. If she did have sex with a married man, then she didn’t know the man she was having sex with was married. Now my question is, between Joyce and Vanessa who do  you think lacks more morals and who is more promiscuous?

 

This blog I admit is very unfair, but so is racism and politics. Life in general is unfair. A lot people will get offended but before you assume I am judging really read this blog and think about it because this is our reality. People only want to hear the truth when its positive or it’s something in their favor. I wrote this blog to really show people that it’s more than just a high body count to judge a woman. A low body count does not mean a woman is classy.  I also believe that a woman with a high body count can have the potential to be a good mother and a good faithful wife/girlfriend.  By the way I know the majority of my followers are women so just to let you know, it’s no double standard because men too lack morals as well and I will write a blog about that in the future as well. If you want to comment on this go right ahead, but the comments are optional. If you don’t feel comfortable expressing your opinion then you can keep your comment to yourself.  But please read and understand before you assume I am judging or slut shaming.

Praying For A Better Future

Generation lacks discipline and common sense.
We live in a world where we fake and pretend,
that we are loyal to our friends.
Friends become enemies since jealousy more common than loyalty.
People say “Trust me” than stab you in back then ask “Why you bleeding?”
God , we say we believe in him, but yet put money and sex over everything.
Money and sex is the motto because it’s the root of all evil.
Foundation of the most horrific sins from the people.
People switch up and change like the color of leaves.
Women won’t give you a time of day until money coming your away but that been the way since ancient days.
Will scarfice the reputation of their name by using sex to get their way.
Men with power attracts those women like magnets to the point they steal bfs from there own kind because there way they got to have it.
Life is graphic and surrounded by violence.
Survial of the fittest between the weak and the dominant.
When you look around you, what do see, what’s most prominent?
Just see yourself in an environment your trying to survie in.
Another words look out for yourself because others brings disappointment, especially during the hardships they turn into ghosts when you need them most.
But this is what happens to us when we forget to put God 1st.
Instead of Jesus, a soulmate is what we tend to search to subdue our struggles or loneliness.
Many of us thinks a relationship is the key to happiness,
but sometimes it’s a knock on the door of the Devil’s .
Invitations sent we just invited trouble.
Eliminating a problem sometimes adds on another one.
Just when we think we found true love, true colors come out.
From a hero in disguise to a monster out the closet.
Your soulmate wasn’t being honest, but the truth soon will be acknowledged when you looking at two red lines parallel while on the toilet.
Well at least now you know the reason of the sudden fatigue and headaches.
Scared but yet feel safe since you think you been blessed with a man that has ambition and with you in his future plans,
until you get a unknown call from another woman cursing you out saying stop harassing my man.
Come to find out, your man has a baby momma and he’s already a deadbeat father.
From looking up to him as a hero, you now see he’s a coward.
A coward that ran game on you and you was only a side chick.
All them late nights, he’s tell you have complete ownership of him and his dick.
Now you have take off work to make a trip at the clinic.
Another baby aborted since you can’t afford to take care of an infant.
So bad you wanted to keep it but your man left you stranded.
So heartbroken because things didn’t go the way planed it.
Told you that having you was like scoring the winning touchdown,but you was really a 2nd string player in a scrimmage.